If there is nothing else to create then, perhaps, you will create yourself. – Carl Jung

Dimming your light to make another’s appear brighter darkens the whole world. – anonymous

The work of art I do not make, no one will ever see. – Simone Weil

Make today less about pleasing others and more about pleasing yourself.

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. – Eleanor Roosevelt

What would you do if you were not afraid?

Don’t let go of your courage the minute things start to become difficult. – Elizabeth Gilbert

The eyes of my eyes are opened. – ee cummings

There are two ways of spreading the light—to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it. – Edith Wharton

Traditional Evolution

Traditional Evolution

There is an interesting mix of contradiction this time of the year: light and dark, new and old, anticipation and reflection. There’s excitement of course: sleeping in, great food, good friends, familiarity. It’s an opportunity to celebrate traditions that go back...

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War and Peace

War and Peace

Last year the Tower of London was awash in bright red ceramic poppies. 888,246 of them carpeted the lawns, one for each  soldier killed in the First World War. It was amazing; somber and uplifting all at once. We were lucky enough to be there, accompanied by my...

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Away. And A Manger.

Away. And A Manger.

Autumn is a great time to get behind the wheel and just drive. I don’t know where you live, but here, roads are generally straight lines, the occasional hill, and lots of yellows and browns against the most gorgeous clear blue sky. Prairie skies. If you haven’t seen...

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Selling The Farm

Selling The Farm

My mother grew up on a farm near Borden, Saskatchewan. Born the April before the stock market crash of 1929, she was steeped in uncertainty and lack. The farm she lived on until she was a teenager had been in the family since 1906, when her grandfather and his brother...

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Discounted

Discounted

It happened almost 20 years ago at the gas station. I filled up my car (back then a sporty little tourmaline coloured Sunfire) and went to the kiosk to pay. The boy-man attendant handed me my change, looked up and said, “thanks Ma’am, have a great day.” Wham, Bam! You...

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Peak Performance

Peak Performance

It’s been a year this month that I left my job. One revolution of the earth around the sun, endless summer giving way to seemingly endless winter. And now, spring and another season of beginnings. I had hoped that, at the end of this year of change, I would emerge...

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Some Wings and a Prayer

Some Wings and a Prayer

This week a freelance project randomly took me to my old elementary school! And, as my daughter would say, I am not even joking. Out of all the schools in all the cities... It smelled the same; Pine Sol and pencil sharpenings, wet boots and forced air. And most things...

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The Good That You Do

The Good That You Do

It is easier to feel successful when you are making money. At least that is true for me. And, until the point last year when I quit my job to follow my spirit, I felt relatively successful. I still have most of the things I had then: good health, a lovely daughter, a...

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Kindness of Strangers

Kindness of Strangers

I don’t think I am alone in feeling lost and hopeless, given the news lately. I am specifically speaking about the shootings in Paris. I am generally speaking about fear, hatred, isolation and intolerance. It’s easy to feel both foolish and incredibly naïve if you...

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The Light and the Dark Rum

The Light and the Dark Rum

I love a great glass of red wine on a crisp autumn evening. Or the perfect Pimms Cup to celebrate the beginning of summer. It’s so easy to feel ever so elegant with a crisp gin and tonic shaken and served (with fresh lime juice) in a martini glass. And on those...

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Uneven Surfaces

Uneven Surfaces

They care for you and then, later on, if you are lucky enough to have a Mother Who Grows Old, you return the favour. This is how it is beginning for me. My mother finally took her doctor’s advice and got a shiny new metal hip. This after years of “I’m fine!” but the...

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